Attending someone’s formal get together in their home is a fun experience that allows you to socialize, enjoy good food and drink and even make new friends. Although such an occasion may seem simple to put together, being the host of such an event can be an overwhelming challenge. If this is your first time having guests over to your house for such a get-together, you may be frantically worrying about every aspect of the process. Luckily, there are some helpful tips you can follow to give you peace of mind, organization and the ability to host the perfect formal get together.

There is no rulebook you’ll need to follow in order to put together and host a successful formal get together in your home. However, there is a right way and a wrong way to go about the process. The first tip to take is to plan in advance. Communicate with your guests and find out what date and time frame works best for everyone. It is also important to keep in mind that not everyone you invite will be able to make it. As long as the majority of your guests are able to agree on a date and time, this will make it easy for you to figure out how many people to expect. Once you have the schedule set, you can focus on the details of the event. Most formal get-togethers take place in the evening and involve appetizers, dinner, and dessert.


Happy guests are those that are well fed so make sure to make the necessary arrangements when it comes to the food and drink department. Before finalizing the menu, find out if your guests have any food allergies or other conditions (vegetarians, vegans, etc.). Do your best to make sure that there will be something for everyone available on the table so no one feels left out. One helpful tip is to require your guests to bring their choice of wine or mixed drinks to the get-together. This will be one less factor for you to worry about.

Perhaps one of the best tips to follow when putting together your first formal get together is to ask for help when needed. Include your family in the event, especially your spouse or significant other. Just because you are the host does not mean you have to do everything yourself. This is a common mistake made by many first-time hosts. Having additional assistance will simplify your to-do list and will dramatically decrease your stress levels. If you have areas of planning and organization that you are not very strong in, assign those duties to your sweetie, sibling or best friend.

Making a checklist is a great way to keep everything on track. The main tasks that should appear on your checklist include, but are not limited to: locking in a date and time, sending out invites, managing RSVPs, organizing the menu and decorating the house for the event. It is also helpful to have a backup plan in case something goes wrong. While you can’t predict the future, having alternatives to work with will make your life a lot easier.